How do I start a group and invite friends?
Short answer
Tap Group, tap Start a group, then share the invite link, code, or QR code
Start a group
- Sign in with Apple, then tap "I agree" to the group rules
- Pick a handle if the app asks for one
- Tap "Group", then "Start a group"
- Type a name, pick a crest, and pick how many people can join (2 to 12)
- Turn on "Let people find this group" if you want strangers to be able to ask to join
- Tap "Start group"
Your group opens right away, with the invite screen already up.
Invite friends
- Tap "Share invite link" to send it through Messages or another app
- Or show the QR code, so a friend can scan it with their camera
- Or read out the code, so a friend can type it in
The link and code work for 7 days, or until the group is full.
Need a fresh one? Tap "Make a new link". The old link and code stop working, but anyone already in the group stays in.
Let people in who ask to join
If you turned on "Let people find this group", people can find it and ask to join. Only someone who runs the group can let them in.
- Tap "Group", then the "…" menu
- Tap "Requests"
- Tap "Accept" or "Decline" for each person
How big can a group be?
From 2 to 12 people. You pick the size when you start the group.
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Updated September 2026